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Life after marriage

My marriage has been of complete ups and downs. Mine is a love marriage and yes still it is filled with ups and downs. I got married to the love of my life. Everything was very different before we married. We hardly meet for few hours and now you spend 24X7 with that person.

I and my better half started our married life, we were just two of us living as a nuclear family. It was difficult to manage work and home both together. At my mom’s place, I was leading a life like a princess. But suddenly here I had to do everything from washing utensils to cooking food.

I did not enjoy doing all the household chores. It was completely difficult. I would be mentally tired after coming from office and then I had to do the cooking and washing stuff. Later we got in a helping hand for me for doing the household chores.

Immediately after marriage my better half’s office timing changed. He had to work in odd shifts. This lead to me staying at home alone most of the time. I did not have the habit of living alone. This affected me mentally. I started feeling alone and lonely. I had no one to talk to. When I would be in office, my better half would be at home and when he was in office I would be at home.

I got mentally disturbed, my better half understood that I was facing with some issues. He took me to the doctor and we started working out on the problems. When I was not well and couldn’t do the household chores, he did everything, he treated me like a queen and helped me a lot to fight the problem.

Today I am happy with him and due to quarantine we both are together 24X7. I feel a sense of security. I am happy that my better half understood me and was beside me during my bad times. This situation even had a effect on him too. We both gave each other strength and fought with the situation. I am glad to have a better half like him. In true sense he is my better half and he completes me.

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